We are a continuous pattern of disarray.
I often wonder during my daily travels between the sun and moon, what my role is in others’ lives. Where am I found in their ocean-length autobiography? Could I have been dedicated as a single chapter in my childhood friend’s life? Was I the period that marked off the end of a paragraph in one of my friend’s love affairs? Did I fit in as the space between a stranger’s sentence describing his commute on a Friday night? Could it be that I formed the title in one of the most dramatic scenes in my mother’s story? Perhaps I was swimming in the margins of my Alma mater’s history, graduating to frame the next paragraph that speaks about my generation and how much we have potential as career scrappers. Did I became the page itself in someone else’s adventure, absorbing each letter then letting those black stains be the one appreciated and noticed, but not the blemished paper? Where do I fit in, I wonder?
A better question would be: where are you in mine?
And so I begin my adventure anew in this site, full of plans that I most likely will not follow and dreams I most likely will still chase. Thank you for sticking around and I’ll try to post something new every week from now on since my schedule is wide open. Hodor!
Kitty posts. Next attraction.
How do you formulate the words that could perfectly describe the outcomes of your jumbled thoughts? How could you bring into reality the expanse of your mind? Like jotting down the grocery list of philosophies sprouting in your head because you saw philosophy from familiar faces and unknown places. Like trying to capture sceneries with the tip of your fingers, balancing the pressure in between.
How do you explain the need to express without forceful expression of the things you don’t know how to begin explaining? Do words choke us on the way out, thereby silencing the urge to press the mind further? Like paralyzing the hands holding the sword.
I am a writer and yet I do not know how to write down the simple equations of thoughts trapped within my mind.
I am afraid of grown-men.
I am sometimes afraid of my own father and how he is a grown-man. I am almost quiet whenever they speak of him… so casually. And my brain itches to tell. My mouth tries to form the words, but fear cripples my tongue and breaks the ant-size resolve I may have formed during the few moments we talk about him.
His face forms in my mind and mocks me as the secret could not leave the valleys of my teeth. My eyes dry themselves out, preferring to drown when I least expect it. My body pities me. It crumples and hugs itself until the walls climb and shut me in from those touches and sounds he made, satisfied with the frozen frame of someone young and naive.
I rock back and forth.
“Don’t tell them. They won’t understand.”
“It’s all in your head.”
“It’s nothing. It’s nothing. It’s nothing.”
Your feet becomes sluggish as you exit the ancient building you find yourself calling “some kind of home”. The light from the sun doesn’t glare and burn through your eyes since the afternoon is already settling in. You walk around and find that you’re becoming heavier and heavier. At first you thought it was because you lack the proper sleep any adult should have, but then you realize it’s your emotions weighing you down. You curse inside your head when you see someone familiar. Continue reading
I’m sorry because we fought. I’m sorry because we wasted time on things that shouldn’t have happened. I should’ve made up with you right away and tried to mend Us. We could’ve spent those times together. We could’ve done things we weren’t able to do because our pride got in the way. I could’ve been there when you needed someone. I could’ve been there when you needed to cry or be held. Continue reading
An open letter for you:
I love you A, as my real-est friend and I am also in love with you.
Maybe you will never tell me those exact words or you will never tell me anything remotely close to that, and maybe that’s okay because I still love you and will always love you despite of that. Continue reading
Sometimes, I wonder about my dreams.
As I look through pictures of people I know or I’m familiar with and words that tell other’s success, I ask myself where I am when those things happened. What was I doing? Was I trying to accomplish my daily school goals just for the sake of getting through each day with my sanity still intact? Was I lying in bed, reading a book about a magical world, so far away that it’s fictional? Was I mourning over the loss of my heart, seeing it so broken that it makes my fingers bleed just trying to reach and hold them? Was I looking for things in virtual space, expanding the horizon of my eyes so my mind could see the world better?
What was I doing?
Was it to get nearer to my dreams?
What are even my dreams? Do they really exist or do I just wish to create something to help me see the road clearer? I feel something stir in me whenever I see these people’s accomplishments. I could feel jealousy because they hold proofs that they accomplished something and I didn’t. I could feel anger towards myself because I wasn’t doing anything to make things clearer for me, to make a name for myself and to create something for myself that I could be acknowledged for. I honestly feel like each day that pass, my passion grows weaker. I am being dragged by my collar, bunched up on my face so much so that it’s getting harder to breathe, and thrown into a prison where I can see, from all sides, the grandeur of my friend’s victories and acknowledgements.
I know I can do so much, but my will feels so little. Such a tiny creature hibernating in my mind.
I wonder where can I go from here. I wonder if the future seems as bright as what my high school version imagined it would be. It’s difficult to be littered with disappointments and expect yourself not to tire from getting up every time you trip on them.
Until now, I feel tired. It does not wane.
Everybody has a dark side, especially the good ones.